More than anything, this blog was conceived as an open and heartfelt conversation about how we embrace life in a changing world. I’m touched that so many of you have taken the time—and the risk—to engage with me and with one another in that spirit. I honor the sincerity and variety of what you’ve shared, both on- and off-line, and I thank you for caring enough to participate.
In a commencement address at the University of Portland in early May, Paul Hawken spoke to all of us when he said: “What I see everywhere in the world are ordinary people willing to confront despair, power, and incalculable odds in order to restore some semblance of grace, justice, and beauty to this world.” He went on to quote the poet Adrienne Rich: "So much has been destroyed I have cast my lot with those who, age after age, perversely, with no extraordinary power, reconstitute the world."
Several of you have written about working to change the world “out there,” only to realize that change begins “in here.” An honest appraisal of where change might be needed “in here” leads to the twin dilemmas of distinguishing inner imperatives from outer obligations and reclaiming the authentic self from the judgments and demands of the past. It’s that process that brings so many of us face to face with the natural world as a source of grounding, identity, healing, and peace.
Much has been written about the (often unconscious) collective grief that we experience in response to the current suffering of the natural world. Hawken reminded us of our intimate relationship to nature when he said in Portland, “The first living cell came into being nearly 40 million centuries ago, and its direct descendants are in all of our bloodstreams. . . . We are vastly interconnected. Our fates are inseparable. . . . In each of you are one quadrillion cells, 90 percent of which are not human cells. Your body is a community, and without those other microorganisms you would perish in hours.”
Miraculously though, as Hawken went on to say, “Life is creating the conditions that are conducive to life inside you, just as in all of nature. Our innate nature is to create the conditions that are conducive to life. What I want you to imagine is that collectively humanity is evincing a deep innate wisdom in coming together to heal the wounds and insults of the past.”
Not long ago, I had a dream about looking back on my life after death and being moved to tears by those few things I’d made (bowls, baskets, drawings, poems) or done (gestures of kindness, smiles of recognition) that were spontaneous expressions of my own uniqueness. Simple and humble though they were, they represented isolated instances in which I’d been totally aligned with the life force and engaged with the outer world in the present moment.
From that after-death perspective, those small moments seemed utterly pure and poignant to me, and they stood out in marked contrast to everything else I’d done in my lifetime. I awoke in tears when I saw how often I’d acted out of duty, obligation, or expectation and how much time and energy I’d squandered on anger, resentment, and judgment of various kinds. I saw how those isolated moments of pure spontaneity had enlarged me and taken me out of struggle—how they’d opened my heart to inspiration, cooperation, and a sense of oneness with all life—how they’d put me in touch with a creative source larger than myself.
I remembered reading or hearing somewhere the idea that the Divine created the world in order to see Itself in reflection, and I found myself wondering if our ultimate purpose in life (and our ultimate gift to the Divine) might not be the simple and joyful expression of our own uniqueness. Just as we ourselves delight in the spontaneity of children, so, too, might the universe delight in our spontaneity when it brings something altogether new into being—something even the Divine might not imagine in quite the same way, since our creativity arises from a mortal perspective.
More and more now, as I reflect on the beauty and pain of the world and wrestle with my own complex responses to them, I wonder if we’re not invited to embrace life as it is with compassion, joy, curiosity, adventure, and a sense of play. I wonder if we’re not invited—individually and collectively—to be co-creators with the Divine in celebrating beauty and healing pain out of the depths of our own authenticity and our own inventiveness. For me, that perspective encompasses not only the realities of change and rebirth but also the paradox of individuality and non-duality that some of you have mentioned in your comments.
“What I do is me: for that I came.” (Hopkins)
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” (Rumi)
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” (Rumi)
For me, reading those lines is like finally understanding my job description, and it differs radically from the one I’ve been following for far too long. I think it’s about reconstituting the world by embracing ourselves and one another, wholeheartedly and as we are, in partnership with nature and in alignment with the creative impulse at the heart of life itself. I think it’s about being joyful, caring, imaginative, and aware. I think it’s about recognizing that we're all interconnected and remembering that “our innate nature is to create the conditions that are conducive to life."
With love and blessings,
Deb
